QUEERIES by Varla: How to reach my queer crush

QUEERIES by Varla: How to reach my queer crush

Help me Varla! I have a crush and I don’t know if she is queer or non-monogamous.  Apprehensively,  Hot to trot Dear Hot to Trot,  Sounds like you have been consumed by desire. The basis of any great relationship, or even hook-up, is friendship and...
QUEERIES by Varla: How to reach my queer crush

Hey Varla: how to keep it “hot”

Varla Dear Varla: I am a woman and married to a woman. We are also pansexual and polyamorous. What are some ways to slyly seduce my wife? I want that intimacy with her, but she wants me to come on to her better. Thank You  Sincerely, J Dear Juicy J,  This...
The many sides of furries

The many sides of furries

Remember the 2016 Disney movie “Zootopia”?  Those cute anthropomorphic characters captured our hearts and taught us valuable lessons of tolerance and determination. Abby Schwartz     For many, this was also an introduction to Furries.    ...
“Bears:” a peek into the culture

“Bears:” a peek into the culture

Rob Anderson of Cedar Rapids  is one of Iowa’s leaders in “bear” culture and Mr. Iowa Leather 2016. He took a few minutes  to share with Christine Hawes about bear culture, in this Q&A, edited for brevity and clarity. What is “bear” culture? The easiest definition...